enabling behavior

[/ɪˈneɪblɪŋ bɪˈheɪvjər/]
nounpl: enabling behaviors
comportamento de possibilitação / comportamento facilitador (de problemas)
1. Actions or behaviors that, while often well-intentioned, allow or facilitate another person's destructive or problematic behavior to continue, preventing them from facing natural consequences or seeking help.
Giving money to an alcoholic friend without addressing their addiction is an example of enabling behavior.
Dar dinheiro a um amigo alcoólatra sem abordar sua dependência é um exemplo de comportamento facilitador.
2. In a broader sense, any action that makes it easier for someone to continue harmful habits or avoid responsibility.
Parents sometimes engage in enabling behavior by making excuses for their child's poor grades.
Os pais às vezes adotam comportamento facilitador ao inventar desculpas pelas notas ruins de seus filhos.
3. Protective or supportive actions that inadvertently remove motivation for change or self-improvement.
Taking over all household chores for a lazy partner could be seen as enabling behavior.
Assumir todas as tarefas domésticas de um parceiro preguiçoso pode ser considerado um comportamento facilitador.
This term is widely used in American psychology, self-help culture, and family therapy contexts. In Brazil, it's increasingly recognized in mental health discussions and family counseling. The concept reflects modern understanding of healthy relationships and personal accountability, challenging the notion that helping always means 'fixing' or 'rescuing' others. It's particularly relevant in discussions about addiction, mental health, and family dynamics in both cultures.
NYC Slang
co-signing someone's BS / enabling their issues
Synonyms / Sinônimos
codependent behaviorfacilitating behaviorenabling conductreinforcing negative behaviorrescuing behavior
Antonyms / Antônimos
healthy boundariesaccountabilitytough loveconsequence-based parentingdetachment

Regional Variations

General Brazilian
comportamento de possibilitação / comportamento facilitador
Most common usage in psychological and social contexts
São Paulo
comportamento facilitador de problemas
Emphasizes the problem-facilitating aspect
Rio de Janeiro
atitude de possibilitação / atitude cúmplice
Sometimes used interchangeably with 'atitude cúmplice'
Portugal
comportamento de possibilitação / comportamento de facilitação
Similar to Brazilian Portuguese, common in clinical and therapeutic settings

Related Words

codependencyboundary-settingtough loveaccountabilityenableraddictiondysfunctional relationshipspsychological dependence

Related Idioms & Phrases

enabling someone's addiction
playing the enabler
enabling bad behavior
codependent patterns
soft on someone's problems
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