be conciliatory

[/bi kənˈsɪliətɔːri/]
verb phrase
ser conciliador/conciliadora; adotar uma postura conciliadora
1. to adopt a peaceful, pacifying, or mediating approach in order to resolve conflict or reach agreement
The manager decided to be conciliatory in the dispute between the two departments.
O gerente decidiu ser conciliador na disputa entre os dois departamentos.
2. to make peace offerings or show willingness to compromise
After the argument, she tried to be conciliatory by apologizing sincerely.
Depois da discussão, ela tentou ser conciliadora pedindo desculpas sinceras.
3. to demonstrate a conciliatory attitude or tone
His conciliatory remarks helped ease tensions at the meeting.
Seus comentários conciliadores ajudaram a aliviar as tensões na reunião.
In Brazilian business culture, being conciliatory is often valued as a way to maintain harmonious relationships (harmonia). In American corporate contexts, it's seen as a negotiation strategy. The concept reflects different cultural values: Brazil emphasizes relational harmony, while American culture may sometimes view it as weakness in competitive contexts.
NYC Slang
play nice; smooth things over; take the chill pill approach
Synonyms / Sinônimos
be peacemakingbe appeasingbe mediatingbe accommodatingbe compromisingadopt a conciliatory stance
Antonyms / Antônimos
be confrontationalbe aggressivebe belligerentbe combativebe uncompromising

Regional Variations

General Brazilian
ser conciliador(a); ter uma atitude conciliadora
Standard usage across Brazil
Rio de Janeiro
ser conciliador; fazer a paz
Common informal usage
São Paulo
ser conciliador; adotar postura de diálogo
Business contexts prefer 'adotar postura de diálogo'
Portugal
ser conciliador(a); adotar uma atitude conciliadora
Similar to Brazilian Portuguese; formal register preferred

Related Words

conciliationconciliatorconciliatoryreconcilemediateappeasenegotiate

Related Idioms & Phrases

extend an olive branch
bury the hatchet
make peace
bridge the gap
meet someone halfway
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